Tuesday, July 23, 2019

THE FREEDOM TO RESTRICT FREEDOM

I Cor. 8:13 ... "If food causes my brother to stumble, I will never eat meat again, that I might not cause my brother to stumble."



      When a pagan took an animal to a temple to sacrifice it to the idol that he worshiped, very often only a small portion of the animal was actually burned in the fire. The remainder was taken to the market place where it was sold for fresh meat. When a Christian bought some of this meat, he could think of it simply as a food item to be taken home, cooked, and eaten for the nourishment and the enjoyment thereof. Or, he might think of it as meat that had originally been offered to an idol and, as such, still had the stigma of idolatry attaching to it. To such a person it seemed that to eat of the meat was in some way to involve himself in idolatry and thus to sin. The person, however, who could dissociate the meat from its idolatrous origin and look upon it simply as common food, felt that there was no sin involved in eating it. In Gentile regions, such as Corinth, where Christian communities sprang up, this matter of meat offered to idols constituted a real problem.

      In I Corinthians 8, Paul deals with this problem in a straightforward way. He first points out that since idols are nonexistent, meat offered to them is the same afterwards as before. That is, nothing from what is nonexistent could attach to the meat to make it defiling. Christians who understood this clearly, as Jewish Christians surely did, could eat the meat without a thought in reference to idols. Paul states, however, that "not all men have this knowledge; but some, being accustomed to the idol until now, eat food as if it were sacrificed to an idol; and their conscience being weak is defiled," (v.7). Here he is doubtless referring in large part to Christians who had lately been converted from idolatry. The former practices and ideas involved in them were still too vivid and strong. Perhaps their minds, trained by the Gospel, told them that the idols were false and powerless, but their hearts yet felt their influence. When Paul discussed this same problem in Romans 15, he designated as "strong" those who could eat the meat in question without misgivings. Those who felt it sinful to do so he called the "weak." Because they were weak, however, they were no less Christian brethren than those who were strong. Therefore they were to be respected and treated with kind consideration. He cautioned the strong brethren who were enlightened that "knowledge makes (one) arrogant, but love edifies," (I Cor. 8:1). That is, love should be the rule that guides, not a knowledge that dogmatically asserts one's right to do what does not offend himself and cause him to sin. So, in v.9 the apostle advises, "But take care lest this liberty of yours somehow become a stumbling block to the weak." In other words, they must not offend their weaker brothers by eating the questionable meat. Love would help them forbear in order to preserve the fragile consciences of the weaker Christians.

      Today we are not faced with the problems of idolatry as such, but there are numerous situations where things allowable to Christians with greater knowledge are temptations and serious occasions of stumbling to those less enlightened. Our text instructs us that the law of love forbids us to exercise our liberty before our weaker brethren lest we confuse them, trouble them, or perhaps ensnare them in a situation where they will violate their consciences and sin. The liberty is ours to use only when we know that it is troubling no brother or sister in Christ. And before we proceed to engage in that thing, we must be very sure such an influence is not being exerted. We must notice the warning in v.12 that "in wounding their conscience when it is weak, you sin against Christ.

Friday, July 5, 2019

GOD'S WILL FOR THE MARRIAGE BOND

I Cor. 7:10-11 ... "To the married I give instructions, not I, but the Lord, that the wife should not leave her husband (but if she does leave, let her remain unmarried, or else be reconciled unto her husband), and that the husband should not send his wife away."



      In the beginning, so Gen. 1:27 records, "God created man in His own Image, in the Image of God He created him, male and female He created them."  Humans are divided into male and female sexes by the will and creative act of God, not by any design or deed of humans. God took this step to meet a specific need in man, as we are informed in Gen. 2:18, "Then the Lord God said, 'It is not good for the man to be alone; I will make a helper suitable for him.'" So God proceeded to fashion the woman from a rib He removed from the man and presented her to the man, thus uniting the first man and woman in the state of marriage. In v.24 the Lord then decreed, "For this cause a man shall leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave to his wife; and they shall become one flesh." Centuries later Jesus commented upon this verse by saying, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate," (Mat. 19:6). These scriptures show that it is God's will for a man to take a woman as his wife and for this marriage union to last for the duration of their lives. When a marriage is contracted, God Himself seals the union and forbids anyone to break the bond. Only one exception (other than death, Rom. 7:2) is allowed, which is revealed in Mat. 19:9, "Whoever divorces his wife, except for immorality, and marries another commits adultery."

      We have arrived at a very poor state in human affairs where this decree of God is set aside as though God's will is meaningless. About half of current marriages end in divorce, and only a fraction of them are allowed by Scripture under the category "except for immorality." Many years ago civil law was much closer to divine law and allowed divorce reluctantly, but the situation has since been radically changed. The number of causes for which civil law grants divorce varies somewhat from state to state, but it extends to more than twenty. Human law may change to allow many things, but Jesus in Jno. 10:35 declared that "the Scripture cannot be broken." And in the Last Day it is the Divine Scripture by which we all will be judged, not by any human law. God wills that the marriage bond should last until death breaks it, and He allows only one exception, immorality. This statute cannot be changed; therefore, it is our obligation to respect it scrupulously.

      In our text above, Paul is passing these divine instructions along to the Christians in the church in Corinth. He tells the married woman that she must not leave her husband, but rather must live with him and be the best wife to him that she can be. Sometimes, it may be necessary for a woman to leave her husband for her own safety. Unfortunately, some men are violent and will hurt their wives, even severely. But this is not a Scriptural reason for divorce, for Paul clearly says, "but if she does leave, let her remain unmarried." If the reason that led to the separation can be rectified, the apostle declares that she should "be reconciled unto her husband." Then to the husband he commands that he "should not send his wife away." In other words, although it is left up to each of us to decide if we will marry and whom we shall marry, God does not grant us the option to terminate our marriage. When we seize that option for ourselves and then exercise it, we are transgressing the law of God. And God certainly takes note of it!